Here's the secret to dealing with the sandy vagina: Ignore it. Let her bitch. Pretend to feel bothered by her bitching, if necessary. Pretend to look sorry, if necessary. In one ear, out the other. Listening and worrying isn't going to accomplish anything.
Sometimes instead of pretending to be bothered, just go right ahead and look like you feel - like you don't give a damn. So she's bitching, and you're going on with life. If she gives you the silent treatment, even better; now she's not bitching. The silent treatment might seem scary, but it's great!
If you really want to try to put it to a stop, try asking her as sincerely as possible what you can do to make it better. Usually there's nothing you can do, she just wants to be pissed and vent for a while. If there is something you can do and she tells you, now you know something about her and how she thinks, and maybe it's even something you're willing to do.
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