theholycow |
11-08-2009 12:55 PM |
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Originally Posted by JayBo
(Post 19400)
She said I did something that pushed her over the edge. What it was I dont know.
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Already you can see that a marriage with her is not viable no matter what you do. You can't fix what's bothering her if she's not willing to communicate. You can't have a successful relationship of any kind if she's hiding her feelings from you.
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I could type a whole page on this question if you really want to know, but I don't know if I'm worth it.
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BULL FUCKING SHIT. You are worth it. You are the one who's trying. You are the one who values the marriage. You are definitely worth it.
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said I was poking fun at her cousin dying.
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Total bullshit. She's picking on a small fault that she can find, blowing it out of proportion to support what's going on inside her.
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Originally Posted by JayBo
(Post 19404)
She said I "verbally abuse" her. Please everyone give me your definition of that..
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You know the definition. If you haven't been doing it, then it's more of her bullshit trying to support her weak position.
Look, she is having a problem, and she's taking it out on you. She is probably having what I call the female early-life crisis. They all have it; it's like the man's mid-life crisis but happens in the 18-30 year old range. Hers was triggered by being married and realizing what that means, the whole life ahead of her being with one person, having to live together and learn to deal with eachother's foibles, and just the general panic of being trapped.
Start a thread, or IM me, or something. This is too serious for the chat thread. Did you see my previous posts about it?
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